If you have ever wonder who is the right one for you, I’ve got bad news.
There is no right person for you when it comes to love.
But there is always a right choice to make when searching for the right person for yourself. The type of person you tend to be attracted to and the way the person behaves is described on your personal birth chart since you are born. Your personal birth chart will indicate to you, your potential partner based on who you’re likely to be attracted to and how your spouse is typically like. To get your personal birth chart, click here.
There are some indicators on the birth chart. For this article, we look at the planets Venus and Mars.
Let’s crack right into this!
Venus is a planet associated with love, affection and beauty.
For men, Venus describes the type of woman he finds attractive. Unlike the Moon whereby it describes what the man is looking for emotionally, Venus is the indicator for physical attractiveness.
Therefore, you may find that a lot of men, when they eventually marry, tend to choose someone very different from the women they have dated in the past. This is because men unconsciously choose their wives who resonates with their Moon sign instead of the Venus sign. A woman may be physically attractive to a man at first, but over time, a woman has to capture the man’s Moon interest (cater to his emotional needs) in order to have a good chance of keeping him for the long haul.
For women, Venus describes how she demonstrates love and affection, as well as how she attracts a potential partner.
Venus in Aries
For Men: He is attracted to women who are bold, direct, forthcoming, strong-willed, and independent type. Her outspoken personality is what attracts him the most instead of the shy and reserved type of women. She can be a little bit tomboyish and daring. In addition, she may also be the one who tends to play hard to get, which is pretty attractive to men with Venus in Aries on their birth chart.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who is assertive, sometimes aggressive, courageous and outspoken. “Do first, think later” is the slogan she lives by.
Venus in Taurus
For Men: He likes women with slim and sexy figures but she has to be the feminine sort who is more traditional in her mannerism and calm for her temperament. The sensual types are most attractive to him instead of the loud and assertive types. His ideal woman is someone who is voluptuous, sweet, and also smart.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who is emotionally stable, feminine, and sensual. She is a natural in the way she interacts with men which makes her very attractive to a lot of them at first. That’s because she generally knows how to treat men the way they like to be treated.
Venus in Gemini
For Men: He likes women who are intelligent, gregarious, athletic, knowledgeable, and some slimness is preferred. However, he prefers a woman with intelligence and liveliness to physical attractiveness. Communication is highly regarded in his relationship with his ideal woman.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who is an all-rounder, even if she knows little about a specific topic. She knows how to carry a conversation to various degrees of depth which is pretty impressive to some men. But beware, some women with Venus in Gemini tend to appear flirtatious because they seem to have a way with words and non-verbals.
Venus in Cancer
For Men: He likes women who are more traditional in her mannerism such as the “housewife” material. She is someone who looks traditionally feminine, doesn’t dress loudly or flaunt her assets everywhere she goes, but still displays that cute innocence and motherly devotion to her men which makes it attractive to men with Venus in Cancer. He tends to be the shy person who avoids rejection and this reflects on his preference for women who are usually not the overly confident or assertive type.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who is a caring partner and someone who is generous of her time and effort in a relationship. She is likely to be a natural when it comes to cooking, regardless of the dishes. And because of her sympathetic nature, she tends to be good with children, which can be an attractive trait to many men.
Venus in Leo
For Men: He is attracted to women who are filled with self confidence, outgoing and perhaps to a large extent, showy. The flashy (or trashy) dress sense, the nice makeup, and the pretty jewellery on a woman tend to appeal to men with Venus in Leo. Bold, confident, and dynamic are traits he looks for in a woman.
For Women: She presents herself to a potential partner as someone sophisticated, living on the edge of opportunity, dramatic, intense, entertaining, creative, and just full of fun at the same time.
Venus in Virgo
For Men: He prefers women who are physically healthy and energetic to those who are just physically attractive on the outside. Cleanliness, natural beauty and being in the pink of health are most appealing to men with Venus in Virgo. It would be a bonus if she is modest, down-to-earth, and intelligent.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who is organised, analytical, pragmatic and a little health-conscious or even picky.
Venus in Libra
For Men: He likes women who are romantic, charming, diplomatic, courteous, beautiful and feminine. Anything opposite of those traits is a turn off for him.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who is openminded when it comes to striking a good conversation. Building good rapport is important to her so she will demonstrate some form of fairness in her interaction with others by not taking sides. She is also someone who is romantic by nature.
Venus in Scorpio
For Men: He is attracted to dark and mysterious type of women who are also seductive, beautiful, and sensual. Think femme fatale, that lady who is the man-eater or a vamp, who asserts a little dominance over him from time to time. Yes, that’s the kind of women he tends to go after. That lady has to have a powerful aura that is unforgettable.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who is committed and loyal, yet enigmatic in a relationship. She reveals little and expects a man to get to know her on a deeper level. Emotional connection is extremely important to her.
Venus in Sagittarius
For Men: He likes women who are upbeat, full of life, energetic, adventurous, outgoing, and optimistic. She does not have to be well-groomed but just looking presentable is sufficient to these men. In addition, he likes women who are openminded and are willing to try new things and travel to unique destinations with him.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who is sporty and adventurous. She may appear restless to some because she is constantly on the move. If she isn’t on the move, then her mind is.
Venus in Capricorn
For Men: He is attracted to women who are competent in what she does. She has to have an aura of confidence and yet knows what she is doing at the same time. Generally, men with Venus in Capricorn like women who are career-oriented or has a status attached to her. As such, he may find himself particularly interested in older or more mature women who have ambitions and achievable life goals. Beauty is a bonus but status is a must.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who is industrious, consistent, and competent in what she does. She lives by her goals and expects her partner to appreciate her the way she is, and that includes her life goals.
Venus in Aquarius
For Men: He is somewhat attracted or impressed by women who are different from the norm — either they are unconventional or just artistically unique, both in dress sense and mannerisms. She can be beautiful but most importantly, she must be interesting and free-spirited enough to capture his interest.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who likes to have her own freedom and time to herself. She tends to find herself in casual relationships with her male best friends (guys, please beware of this trait). Her dress sense can sometimes shock you but yet, attractive enough to make her stand out and draw others in. Apart from that, she has a compassionate side to her and you can find her volunteering for humanistic causes she believes in.
Venus in Pisces
For Men: He likes damsels in distress. Now let me clarify — those women who have an aura of femininity, softness, and sweetness to her are attractive to men with Venus in Pisces. It is okay for her if she lacks confidence with a sense of helplessness because he will come by, and then probably sweep her off her feet with his compassion and boldness. She has to be a person who is gentle and kind.
For Women: She presents herself as someone who is gentle and delicate just so that she gets what she wants from the men. Although this placement is prone to manipulation if it is unhealthy, women with Venus in Pisces are compassionate givers who will often go the extra mile for their partners.
Mars is a planet associated with ambition, willpower, sexual drive and aggression.
For men, Mars describes his masculinity, level of ambition and sexual drive.
For women, Mars describes the type of male traits in a man she finds attractive enough to be her suitor. And although that is the case, we still have to look at other placements on the birth chart to determine if she needs to work on herself to attract the male partner and keep him in the relationship for a longer term.
Mars in Aries
The native is highly energetic and aggressive. At the same time, the native is goal-oriented and have a sense of direction of where he or she is heading. In pursuit of their life partner, the native would make advances and sometimes appear a little bold and abrupt. Nonetheless, these natives go after what they want and do not easily back down unless they are proven wrong. Men with Mars in Aries tend to have alpha male traits.
Mars in Taurus
The native is patient, steadfast, and willing to wait out for a positive outcome in any situation. They take calculated risks but most of the time prefer to wait for opportunities to present themselves before taking the giant leap of faith to execute their plans. They tend to take a slower approach to relationships and can sometimes be too passive for their own good. They don’t often speak their mind and tend to be reserved and non-expressive. Men with Mars in Taurus tend to have beta male traits.
Mars in Gemini
These natives are ever changing and change is a constance to them. They have scattered energy with various interests that pique their curiosity. Sometimes, we refer to them as a jack-of-all-trades. But they are good with words. Men with Mars in Gemini tend to have alpha male traits if they further develop their wordsmith talent and learn how to charm women with their secret weapon — words.
Mars in Cancer
This native is rather reactive, sentimental, homely, family-oriented, and compromising. On the other hand, the native can be insecure in some ways, such as always wanting to “test the waters” making sure that it is safe, being defensive of their feelings, and losing motivation easily when the native feels threatened. The native is often indirect in expressing emotions and this can be perceived as passive-aggressive behaviour. Men with Mars in Cancer tend to have beta male traits.
Mars in Leo
This native is outgoing, showy, expressive and adventurous too. In addition, the native has an egoistic side which he or she will never show on the face. Therefore, others tend to misunderstand the native’s real feelings towards a social situation. Apart from that, Mars in Leo natives like to impress others and readily show leadership qualities from the get go. These natives are also compassionate but they will only help those who they care for. Men with Mars in Leo tend to swing between alpha and beta male traits because the need to impress can sometimes become an overkill such that it destroys a man’s attractiveness.
Mars in Virgo
This native is a workaholic. Much of this native’s life is centred around work and making progress to achieve success. The problem with this is that relationships take the back seat of the native’s priority and when the time comes for the native to fall in love, it can become rather daunting for him or her in the realm of dating. On the other extreme, the native could have been a casual dater who goes around dating people, sometimes having friends with benefits, without getting too serious in a relationship. Men with Mars in Virgo tend to swing between beta and sigma male traits because they can be very comfortable working alone and doing their own thing.
Mars in Libra
This native is a diplomat who aims to perceive all sides of an argument. Sometimes, others would misunderstand this native for having a lack of opinion or taking a stand on certain issues. There is a tendency for this native to be indecisive because he or she does not want to offend anybody. Men with Mars in Libra tend to have beta male traits.
Mars in Scorpio
These natives are headstrong, determined and extremely adaptable. Give them any setback, they will bounce back easily and move on with life as soon as they can. You will never find these natives compromising on their beliefs and principles. They stick on to their beliefs and defend them at all costs. Romantically, these natives are skilful lovers and good with words. Their ability to charm their potential suitors make them master manipulators who need to tone it down so that this trait does not one day become a vice. Men with Mars in Scorpio tend to have alpha male traits.
Mars in Sagittarius
This native is forever seeking for the best, the most suitable, and the most ideal. As long as there is variety, this native does not get bored. Romantically, they lose interest pretty fast and they move on just as fast as they made their love conquest. However, playing hard to get is the best way to lose these natives’ interest because they would prefer low hanging fruits that have the qualities they’re after. Men with Mars in Sagittarius tend to have beta male traits.
Mars in Capricorn
This native is diligent, ambitious, and driven for success. Like the Mars in Virgo natives, these natives are workaholics. They generally have a goal and work tirelessly to get ahead in life. They make good leaders and may have good people skills if they’re trained for it. They tend to seek romance that are more mature and stable, and their partner to be adding value to their career and status. There is this need to be proud of their partner no matter what. Men with Mars in Capricorn tend to swing between alpha and beta traits. Alpha traits when he shows balance in work and people (women) skills. Beta traits when he is fully immersed in work and have no life whatsoever. Zero life equals zero people (women) skills.
Mars in Aquarius
This native is rather innovative and they give no attention to rules because rules are meant to be broken. That’s where they get their creativity and inspiration to think different and be different. However, the price to pay for their brilliance and ingenious personality is that they sometimes find themselves being cast aside as misfits. Therefore, these natives tend to be loners even though they are also skilled networkers. Well, it is very possible to feel lonely in a crowded room when nobody thinks like you do, is’t it? Men with Mars in Aquarius tend to have sigma male traits.
Mars in Pisces
This native is passionate, impulsive, idealistic, and empathetic. Sometimes, these individuals react to energy around them to the extent of absorbing other people’s problems as their own. They feel very deeply for others and people with such placements tend to find themselves in healthcare and mental health professions. These natives dream and fantasise a lot. Men with Mars in Pisces tend to have beta traits because of their strong reaction to other people’s problems or opinions, and their tendency to become that ‘Mr Nice Guy’ that a lot of women ultimately friend-zoned.
The above are some examples of great indicators for spotting your potential suitors, including yourself because self-awareness is the first step to attracting the right person to you. There is more to it on the second part of this series, which will be published in the near future.
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Astrology gives you invaluable insights into your romantic choices as well as your strengths and derailers in relating to your partner. Even so, much of the outcome in your relationship is determined by your conscious choice of how you react to your significant other.
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